Here is one way you can control your future

Hello, Trueselfers!

Do you know you are currently living two lives at the same time? Well no wonder things get confusing! lol

Check out this week’s video to find out how it’s possible to be living two lives at the same time, and how to use this understanding to create a brighter future.

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Toni Rebic, M.A., Psychologist

Here is one way you can control your future

You are experiencing two lives at the same time.

Want to know how that’s possible? (cue music)

Hi I’m Toni Rebic, lover of life and creator of TrueSelf Psychology –

It may be weird for you to learn that you are actually living two lives at the same time.

The first one is the one you are living right now-  in your present moment reality. The one you feel to be real.

The second one is the one that is creating your future.

Now, what do I mean by that?

Well, your future is dictated by how you are reacting to events in your present moment – how you are experiencing life right now.

So while you are in the present – living in the now, you are creating your future at the same time.

For example, say you’re enjoying good day, driving along to work – that’s your first reality, and then all of a sudden, somebody cuts you off in traffic and you react with anger, now your present moment reality switched from feeling good to being upset.

In other words, your reaction changed the course of your next present moment and unless you brush it off quickly and switch back your good mood – you’re going to bring your bad mood with you into your future.

It is sooooo important to understand that Your reaction can only happen in the present, because it dictates and directs the course of what is to come. How’s that?

Well, your mood and how you feel determines how you see life around you, how you interpret your reality, and how you will interact with it, and therefor how it will respond back to you.

Most people are under the impression that it’s the driver who cut them off that caused their emotional shift. We tend to attribute our emotions to what’s happening outside of us. And you may tell me, “Toni, well the person did cut me off, he could have killed me? That’s a reason to be upset.”

Well, let’s review that…

Ever noticed how when you feel good, you see things in a better way, you interpret life around you more favorably, and you’re kinder with the people around you and therefore people are kinder with you?

Conversely when you’re in a bad mood, you see things in a negative way, you interpret life around you this favorably, you’re irritable with those around you and therefore people  may respond in kind being more abrasive with you?

Your reaction comes from your [how you] interpret an event – and not the event itself. And more importantly, the energy you put into your interpretation now has a hold on your future.

This is not always easy to understand, and certainly not easy to apply because we are always interacting with life – But the point is you’re living two lives every moment  – the one you are feeling right now, and the one you are creating in your future through your reactions. So make sure your interpret your present the best way possible so that your future looks bright.

To be in control of your next moment, decide how you want to react in the present one. 

Be true to yourself and live a life of choice by choosing to react in a way that allows you to enjoy every moment coming up in your future …

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